Relationship & Intimacy Counselling

Relationship and intimacy counselling for couples across New Zealand. Support for communication breakdowns, emotional distance, trust issues, and reconnecting. In-person and online.

Relationship & Intimacy Counselling

Every relationship goes through periods of disconnection — whether that's emotional distance, ongoing conflict, or a loss of physical intimacy. Relationship and intimacy counselling gives you and your partner a structured, supportive space to understand what's happening and find your way back to each other.

We work with couples at every stage — newly together, long-married, navigating a rough patch, or rebuilding after a major breach of trust.

We support couples working through:

  • Communication breakdowns and recurring arguments

  • Emotional disconnection or feeling like "roommates"

  • Loss of physical intimacy

  • Rebuilding trust after infidelity

  • Mismatched needs or expectations

  • Parenting stress affecting the relationship

  • Pre-marriage and life-transition counselling

  • Long-distance or blended-family relationship challenges

  • Deciding whether to stay together or separate

  • Reconnecting after a long period of conflict

Sessions are calm, structured, and free of blame — the goal is understanding and progress, not deciding who's right.

Relationship & Intimacy Counselling Near You

We offer relationship and intimacy counselling in person and online across New Zealand, including:

  • Auckland— in-person sessions in Remuera and across the wider Auckland region

  • Remuera — our central clinic location

  • North Shore — convenient support for North Shore clients

  • Nelson — serving Nelson and the top of the South Island

  • Northland & Mangawhai — flexible in-person and video sessions

  • Hamilton & Waikato — support across the Waikato region

  • Wellington — online and flexible-schedule sessions

  • Christchurch — support for Christchurch and Canterbury

  • Queenstown — serving Queenstown and the Otago Lakes district

  • Dunedin — support across Dunedin and Otago

  • New Zealand - relationship & intimacy counselling throughout NZ

  • Anywhere in NZ — secure online counselling if you're not near a clinic

Not sure which location fits you best? Get in touch and we'll point you in the right direction.

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You may also find helpful:

  • Signs your relationship needs support

  • How to rebuild trust after an affair

  • Why couples grow apart — and how to reconnect

  • Should we go to counselling or split up?

  • Communication exercises for couples