Pornography Counselling & Problem Sexual Behaviours

Are you controlling your sexual behaviours, or are they controlling you? We can support you to change unwanted sexual behaviours.

Unwanted Sexual Behaviours; Sexual behaviours can lead to reduced mental and physical well being. We can support you to make the changes you want,

Porn Counselling; Viewing porn changes the pathways in your brain and can lead to unhealthy behaviours. Porn is not a drug in the usual sense but its effects mimic dependencies and compulsions.  If you are unhappy with your relationship with porn then you may have a harmful relationship with pornography. 

Side effects of unwanted sexual behaviours and problem pornography use include:

  • Relationship problems

  • Shame & guilt

  • Anxiety and/or depression

  • Inability to have a sexual relationship with a real person

  • Erectile disfunction

  • Low sex drive

  • Compulsive behaviour

  • Dangerous sexual behaviours

  • Legal charges

  • Multiple adverse effects on other areas of life

  • Infidelity 

Intimacy Counselling can help you and is an experienced provider of porn reduction services, with a proven success rate.


Symptoms of Problem Porn Use

The most common signs of problem porn use are:

  1. You feel shame and/or guilt over your porn use

  2. Obsessively thinking about porn

  3. Focusing unhealthy amounts of time and energy towards porn

  4. Feeling unable to stop using porn

  5. Lying to yourself and/or others about porn use

 

Other signs of problem porn use can include

  • using porn to escape daily life

  • self-medicating stress/anxiety/depression with porn use 

  • lacking self-love and a sense of meaning

  • porn is robbing you of your ability to function as a responsible adult

  • porn is preventing you seeking out real life relationships

  • porn is making it harder for you to maintain a honest and/or intimate relationship with your partner 

  • porn is effecting your ability to function sexually with a partner 

  • you are constantly focussed on sexual connections with new partners 

  • you are choosing porn use over connecting with your partner 

  • finding yourself having more mood swings 

  • getting anxious or down when you cannot use porn

  • using porn for longer periods and seeking out more extreme pornography over time 

  • porn is effecting you physically, psychologically, and/or mentally

  • porn is effecting your intimate and/or social relationships  

  • porn use has caused issues with friends

  • porn use has caused issues with your work and/or financial situation

  • porn is causing you to act in ways that go against your morals 

  • porn has caused you to act illegally 

 

Intimacy Counselling has a high success rate and proven record of working with those suffering from porn issues. We believe in tailoring our services to individual concerns and views, providing non-judgemental assessments and a supportive goal based environment. Intimacy Counselling offers both individual counselling and a Porn Recovery Program.


Please get in touch if you would like any further information.